Sibling Love

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Lest You Think I am Superwoman

When Shane got back from his trip to Illinois this week he thought the babies looked bigger. They still seem so small to me, but last night they both had on pajamas that actually fit. For the most part, all of their clothes are entirely too big. But that their jammies are starting to look right on them tells me that our tiny ones are not so tiny any more.

Last night Shane came in late from walking the dogs. I was sitting in bed holding both babies, a head on each shoulder. "Are you in heaven?" Shane asked. I smiled. Absolutely. Two of the sweetest babies on earth live in our home. I get the chance to mother them and their big brother.

I am in heaven.

But lest you think I am superwoman, mothering a 2-year-old and twin babies while preparing to move to another state, let me put your mind to rest. I am not doing much except mothering. I haven't cooked a meal since I got home with the babies, haven't been to out to buy groceries, only vacuumed once that I can remember, and am doing well to get my own laundry folded.

Shane and my parents are keeping life running around here. Shane has done everything to get our house ready to sell, sold, and ready for closing. He is beginning a new ministry from long-distance all while getting us ready to move. My mom is cooking (sometimes three meals a day!) all my favorites. We were laughing at her tonight because she announced she was out of ideas and that we were going to have to go get something to bring home to eat. We've hardly eaten out since she's been in charge of the kitchen so I think it was about time she got a break! And my dad is doing all the grocery shopping and cleaning. I don't think that guest bath has ever been cleaner.

Could a person be more blessed to just get to be home and take care of babies without having to worry about all the other stuff? Like I said, it's heaven.

Going Home (alternately titled: As If Having Twins Were Not Enough...)

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WE'RE MOVING!
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Several weeks ago Silas and I were going through our bedtime routine on a night when Shane was not home. We had the TV on and this guy was on singing...

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Silas watched for a bit then said, "Daddy singing." I laughed so hard and could not wait for Shane to get home so I could tell him...

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You might remember Chris Daughtry from an American Idol of years past. He also sang what became the familiar parting song when contestants were voted off during another season, "Home". Shane is self-admittedly not a musician. But while he may not be singing it, thoughts of "I'm going home, to the place where I belong..." are resonating through him right now.

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Yep, we are very soon going to be moving to the Peoria, Illinois area where Shane grew up. We could never have predicted this move nor could we have ever pinpointed this timing (remember we have newborn twins?). But the Lord had all this in the works long before He let us in on His plan. We have been blessed and humbled to walk behind our God as He unfolded this path before us.

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Shane is joining the staff of Harvest Bible Chapel Peoria as High School Director. We have already been overwhelmed at how the staff at Harvest has welcomed us. And we are looking forward to joining with them, ministering together, and building community with our new church family.

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Shane is actually in Peoria this weekend to begin working with Harvest. We have sold our house (that is a whole story in itself that points to God's provision, timing, and purpose) and will be moving at the end of this month. Until then, Shane will spend some time here and some time there. The rest of us (me, the children and my parents) will not travel until the move.

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I feel ready for this transition. We are ready to feel settled somewhere after the "temporary" feeling of seminary. We are ready to be so close to family. And ready to be part of such an exciting time for such a dynamic and growing church. In our praying through this decision, we couldn't help but keep saying to each other how much this church, these people, and this area fits us. We never thought the Lord would take us right back to Shane's hometown. But we are so grateful.

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So I will leave you with Daughtry's song in honor of Shane's first weekend back home. That's super cheesy, I know, but I do really like this song...

The Twin Thing

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After we had Silas I remember telling Shane that I hoped we had a girl next. My entire pregnancy and birth experience with Silas was so special that I wanted the next one to be just as unique and special as the first. Little did I know that the Lord had more than a little girl in mind for us next time...He was planning twins!
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Simeon and Lieren are as different as two babies could be already. He loves his paci...she acts like she is going to gag sometimes when you put it in her mouth. She is as calm as can be...he starts hollering about anything and everything. He is an excellent sleeper...she would rather snuggle.
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Life with twin newborns doesn't really take much more work than having one, in my opinion. It does take more coordinating, though! Our babies eat at the same time, so if one wakes ready to eat, I wake the other to nurse too. When one diaper needs changing, or it's bathtime, it doesn't take double the time to do two. But it does take some figuring out to get both settled for awake times in swings or bouncies, burped (especially when the other wants to keep eating), up and down the stairs, or sleeping contently. I consistently do not have enough arms and am constantly running back up or down the stairs to get something I need.
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The babies and I do life in a nice 3-hour routine. It works great for all of us and I love having some idea what to expect from each day. Right now feeding times take about 45 minutes to get both twins fed and diapers changed. Not bad! And they do well at night, falling right back to sleep so I can do the same. Speaking of middle of the night stuff, did you know that at 4 in the morning HGTV puts up a screen that says Good Night then switches to paid programming? I have to turn the TV on for that latest night/earliest morning feeding to get myself awake. I've seen that HGTV screen more in the past 2 weeks than I wanted!
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But making it all work is worth life with these two. The twin thing is so sweet. They really do love to be together...

Look Who Turned Two!

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Friday was Silas' birthday. For 10 days we had 3 children under the age of two in our family. Now we have a 2 year-old and newborns. I can hardly believe either one: that our Silas is really 2 or that we have twins!
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Silas' day began with a trip to get his hair cut with Daddy...

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Then after his nap he was surprised with balloons, decorations, and lots of presents. He had to wait till after we ate to open the gifts and did so well being patient. He did keep checking them out, though...

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I'm TWO...

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We didn't want to risk having people over with the babies still being so small. So we just celebrated with my parents and sister, who has been here to visit this week...

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The littlest party-goers...

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Due to the aforementioned 10-day-old babies in the house, I didn't have it together to make a cake myself this year. So we went with a Sesame Street theme and Shane found these cute, big cupcakes at the store. I was so happy that Silas loved them. He probably loved them more than anything I could have made!

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Getting ready to open presents. He was SO excited...

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I have been so blessed to have my family with us to help us both survive and celebrate!

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Silas, we are so proud of how you are growing up. Our lives are full to overflowing every day because of you. We wouldn't want your little brother and sister to follow after anyone else but you!

Our Family at One Week

Our babies turned one week old today. I can honestly say I have loved every minute since their arrival. Even in the twilight hours, my heart is more full than I could have ever imagined.

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We went to our pediatrician for quick weight checks this afternoon. Both babies are gaining weight well. I am sure I have not thanked the Lord enough for how gracious He has been to us. Our babies both came home from the hospital needing no special care and they continue to be healthy. It is what we always prayed for and more.

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This afternoon we decided we wanted to get out of the house so since it was a gorgeous, cool afternoon, we 5 headed to the park. It was perfect and so fun to be together as a family. Here is our family deciding we needed to do something...

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Simeon and Lieren all buckled up and ready to go...

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Silas helping push his little brother and sister into the park...

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I soon took over...

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Daddy and Silas played and played and played...

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They even practiced for Silas' future in baseball; batting and running the bases...

While the rest of us watched or napped...

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Silas was extremely worn out and dirty at the end, if you can't tell. Running the bases turned into writing letters in the dirt and then "I fall down" in the dirt. As my dad said, it's what boys do!

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Thanks for continuing to pray for us as we learn how to do life well in this season. It is good. Not always easy, but very, very good.

We Have Fallen In Love...

With these two.
The babes are sleeping right here this morning after a good feeding time. Shane is still resting after two long nights in the hospital. And I am enjoying the quiet moment.
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Lieren was born 5 pounds, 9 ounces and 18 1/2 inches long. She was born first at 6:32. I only had to push about 4 times till she slipped right out into the world! I could not believe how quickly she came. Lieren hasn't had any issues at all since birth. She feels like a tiny little thing when you hold her, and while she is the older of the two, she is definitely more petite than her brother. (and ps, when I said "natural delivery" in the previous post, don't think I didn't get an epidural as quick as possible!)
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Simeon was born 6 pounds, 4 ounces and 19 inches long. He was born six minutes later at 6:38. He was breech so came into the world feet first. Poor baby's ankles and feet are bruised from being pulled out! But he is a trooper and is recovering well. The doctors watched his breathing for the first day or so but he is not showing any signs of difficulty now. Thank you for praying that we would have two healthy babies to take home with us. The Lord has answered!
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Silas has been up to see us each day. He met his brother and sister, helped mommy hold Simeon, commented on their hats, and kissed them goodbye yesterday. I miss him so much, but know that he probably decided he has gone on vacation! He's been out for pizza, Chick-fil-a, McDonalds, and ice cream. He's gotten new toys, and went to Bass Pro. Having so many grandparents in one place is like a dream come true!
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Today is a milestone in the Drury home...it is our 10th anniversary. I'm looking over at Shane right now and thinking that this is not where I ever imagined we would spend this special day. And yet, I wouldn't have it any other way. Let others head to white sandy beaches...we'll sleep in a hospital bed and a pull-out couch. I cannot imagine more love than we feel right here in this room. Our God has been good and we would not change one little piece of His plan.